It's true that a lot of people who have been through neglect situations can have codependancy issues later on... It's hard to say if that's the case with you and Mega...
If you really care for the other person, and they do for you, there's nothing wrong with pursuing a relationship. But you may want to take things slowly and give yourself time to be sure of what you're feeling.
*smiles a bit, reaches in a drawer* Here, this might answer some of your questions... *hands him a little booklet (http://www.ksu.edu/counseling/csweb/topics/relationships/dysfunc.html#OVERCOME%20THE%20EFFECTS)*
And if you neeed any help, my door is always open...
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Date: 2005-05-28 23:42 (UTC)What is it you'd like to talk about, Harpuia?
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Date: 2005-05-28 23:46 (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2005-05-28 23:59 (UTC)If you really care for the other person, and they do for you, there's nothing wrong with pursuing a relationship. But you may want to take things slowly and give yourself time to be sure of what you're feeling.
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Date: 2005-05-29 00:05 (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2005-05-29 00:09 (UTC)And if you neeed any help, my door is always open...